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Not to mention the fact that as a woman she wouldn’t be allowed to vote, let alone be in government, let alone run for president if the Founding Fathers had anything to say about it. 

Not to mention the fact that as a woman she wouldn’t be allowed to vote, let alone be in government, let alone run for president if the Founding Fathers had anything to say about it. 

— 1 year ago with 26 notes
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Homophobes entitled to beliefs, but not actions based upon them

Dear homophobes,

Today I am angry with you. Today I am fed up with you standing between me and marriage, between my wife-to-be and our rights as a couple, our rights to our children as parents-to-be, our rights to our jobs, to health care, to all the rights that you have. We should have them, too; we’re no less human, no less citizens of the United States of America, but we are denied our rights. I fight that fight in some small way each day, but today, you are pissing me off.

Do you know how hard it is to plan a wedding? Do you have any idea how much harder it is to plan said wedding when you have to figure out a location based on where it’s legal? When you have to make sure everyone from the wedding dress shop to the florist to the photographer to the hotel where your guests will stay will be accepting of two brides?

Is that fun for you? Knowing how much harder you make my daily life? Knowing you are helping to ensure that I can be fired for who I love? That I can’t adopt children with my partner? That I can’t have the human rights I deserve because you ridiculously selfish and misinformed people have invaded every level of every system in this country such that I am treated not only as a second-class citizen, but as a second-class human being?

And I’m supposed to be okay with that? Accept that it’s the result of some choice I made, like it’s some consequence I was meant to suffer? Tell me – when did you make the choice to fall in love with the person you’re with? Or are you single and just bitter that I have love at all?

It’s not okay, and I’m not okay with it. However, you are just as deserving of my human rights as I am, even though you clearly do not feel the same about me and the rest of the LGBTQQAI community. Therefore, you are entitled to your beliefs, as am I, but – and that is a giant but – that does not mean you are entitled to run the world based on your beliefs. There are several institutions that have existed thanks to the majority that were eventually found absurd and dissolved but the right minded. Ensuring that gay people’s human and citizenship rights are protected and upheld will ultimately be a part of this country, because it’s right. I know that, and eventually, you’ll learn it. Or leave and start your own bigoted country.

Why are you not entitled to run the world on your beliefs? Well, what if I ran your life based on mine? You think it’s wrong for me to marry a woman. Great, I think you’re a sociopath. Let’s take a closer look at that*, shall we?

Glibness and superficial charm: Absolutely. Like all powerful dictators and oppressors, you are charming. You are believable. You speak with resounding and convincing words and do so effortlessly. Listeners are bound by your expressive language and presentation and can’t help get sucked into it all.  

Manipulative and conning: By all means. Those TV ads using small children to tear at people’s heartstrings because gay people will supposedly corrupt their innocence? Incredible con work. Taking information and skewing it to your liking – classic manipulation. Convincing people that the marriage of anyone else somehow attacks what they have? I think you get the point. You’re master manipulators and con artists.

You do not recognize the rights of others and see your self-serving behaviors as permissible. You may even go so far as to dominate us and others you’re against with humiliation.

Grandiose sense of self: Marriage is YOUR right, NOT mine. The rights of marriage and job security and health and parenting… all of those are your rights, not GAY rights. Since when do GAY people deserve MY human and citizenship rights, you seem to think.

Pathological lying: Sad, but true. Telling people that gay marriage is against God’s will, the Bible, un-American, etc. Misinforming people by scaring them into thinking gay people are monster, who, given any additional rights, will take over the world and convert it to some dark and scary unsafe corrupt place. Let’s face it, you like it’s your job. You lie so well you may not even know you’re doing it! Even a lie detector might not be able to pick it up because you believe so thoroughly that your absurd and false creations are actually true.

Lack of remorse, shame or guilt: And in this case, all three! You hurt people. Not only do you not care at all that you hurt people, but you’re proud of it. It’s your mission. You’re not sorry, you’re not ashamed, and you’re certainly not guilty. Anger is at your core, driving you against us, turning us into targets and opportunities. You justify the means and run us and anything else in your way over like a tractor trailer whose brakes have failed going down a mountain.

Shallow emotions: You spend so much of your time fighting my access to my rights. My desire to put a ring on the finger of the love of my life is the worst thing you can apparently imagine. You wanting to destroy my life, on the other hand, is something so insignificant to you that it doesn’t even cross your mind. What if someone told you your child couldn’t get married? Or could get fired for who they chose to date? Or couldn’t visit the love of their life as they lay dying in a hospital bed?

Incapacity for love: Maybe you love someone, but it seems like you’re overwhelming capacity to hate all LGBTQQAI people has shoved the humanity right out of you.

Need for stimulation: You love yelling and wouldn’t mind smashing your fist into some unsuspecting gay person’s face to prove your point.

Callousness and lack of empathy: Well we’re just getting to the heart of it, now aren’t we? You CANNOT empathize with the pain you cause the LGBTQAAI community. In fact, us caring at all just makes you more upset, and you’ll kick us when we’re down.

Poor behavioral controls and impulsive nature: You’re entitled to whatever you want and will do whatever it takes to get it, regardless of what that does to the people left in your wake of destruction.

Early behavior problems and juvenile delinquency: Perhaps you’ve always been a bully.

Irresponsibility and unreliability: Could care less about destroying other people’s lives and dreams. Either you don’t know the pain you cause or it doesn’t matter at all to you.

Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.

Promiscuous sexual behavior and infidelity: Corrective rape is often used to “fix” homosexuality.

Lack of realistic life plan or parasitic lifestyle: You promise to destroy all of our rights forever, but let’s be real; we’re not going to let that happen. You promise it nonetheless.

Criminal or entrepreneurial versatility: Change your own tune as needed to say whatever needs to be heard and be whatever the people need you to be to keep believing the charming con act.

Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them. Check. Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them. Check. Authoritarian. Check. Secretive. Check. Paranoid. BIG check. Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired. Check. Conventional appearance. Check. Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim’s life. Check. Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim’s affirmation (respect, gratitude and love). Check.

Do you get my point here?

Now, do I really think that all homophobes are sociopaths? No.

Do you really think that all LGBTQQAI people are dangerous and undeserving of the rights they ought to have as citizens and humans? I certainly hope not.

Nonetheless, your words and actions say otherwise. So unless you mean to destroy our lives without a glimpse of empathy or regard for your actions, perhaps proving the sociopath exaggeration to be disastrously true, please revisit your attacks on us. Our marriages, children, jobs, health care, rights, have no bearing on your life, except to increase equality in this country, further ensuring that your rights can’t be taken away one day because someone else decides you’re unworthy.

I’m not committing you because of your sociopathic tendencies. Why are you working so hard to ensure my life is as difficult as possible?

Let us have what we deserve. Simple as that.


Just one of the millions whose lives you work to control and destroy  

*The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare and came from this site.

**Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.

— 2 years ago with 1 note
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"But to get married we had to cross the Rhode Island boarder. Eventually we would have to find a minister who was supportive of gay marriage. Eventually we would have to hire a lawyer to draw up papers to give each other the power of attorney for medical decisions, to become beneficiaries on each other’s life insurance policies. I wasn’t ashamed of wanting a lifetime with Vanessa. But I was ashamed that the steps I had to take in order to do it made me feel like a second-class citizen."
Zoe, Sing You Home (218) – Jodi Picoult  (via whereigotowander)

(Source: whereicanbeme)

— 2 years ago with 23 notes
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In the course of 3 minutes, we went from being ahead to being about 1,000 votes behind…
Keep spreading the word, and telling more and more people about this poll.

your vote can make a difference


In the course of 3 minutes, we went from being ahead to being about 1,000 votes behind…

Keep spreading the word, and telling more and more people about this poll.


your vote can make a difference

(Source: thesageway, via fuckyeahlesbians)

— 2 years ago with 1088 notes
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In case you’re wondering what our Founding Fathers ACTUALLY had to say about citizens and their rights…

In case you’re wondering what our Founding Fathers ACTUALLY had to say about citizens and their rights…

— 2 years ago with 182 notes
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Beating Babies in the Name of Jesus? The Shady World of Right-Wing "Discipline" Guides →

Dear Lord, please save me from your followers. This is f*ed up.

And you tell me how to live my non-violent and loving life, hypocrites.

— 2 years ago with 12 notes
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